Navigating the Sandwich Years: Raising Teens, Caring for Parents & Redefining Home

Life has a way of stacking its challenges—and its blessings. Raising teenagers while supporting aging parents can feel like juggling two generations at once, often while trying to stay balanced yourself. As a mom of two teens, my days are packed with carpools, soccer tournaments, and endless laundry—plus running a full-time real estate career that somehow always fits in between text messages and water breaks.

A few years ago, my family made the decision to create a dedicated space in our home for my mom. It wasn’t driven by tradition or nostalgia—it was a practical, compassionate choice. She needed a comfortable place where she could maintain her independence but still be close to the daily rhythm of family life. We reworked our layout to give her privacy and ease, and that space has quietly become one of the most meaningful parts of our home.

More families today are doing the same—and here’s why:

Proximity = Peace of Mind Whether it's checking in with medications or sharing a quick meal, having a loved one nearby creates a sense of connection without compromising dignity.

It Bridges Generations While teens are figuring out who they are, having a grandparent around adds an extra layer of support and perspective. It’s not always picture-perfect, but it’s often quietly powerful.

It’s Smart Living With housing costs and care expenses on the rise, blending households just makes sense—and thoughtful renovations can make it feel seamless.

It Reflects Real-Life Love Sometimes love looks like a renovated guest suite and a shared Wi-Fi password. It's these choices—small and large—that speak volumes.

As a realtor, I’ve helped many families explore multi-generational living—from finding homes with in-law suites to recommending local resources that make the transition easier. And as someone living it, I get that it’s not always simple—but it’s often surprisingly rewarding.

Thanks for being here. If you're navigating these choices for your own family, just know you're not alone—and your home can evolve to meet every chapter of your life.